Tuesday, April 22, 2025

At a crossroads / At the crossroads OR At a crossroad (See more)

 “At a crossroads” which is also written as “at the crossroads” means being at an important point in somebody’s life or development.

Both are fixed expressions and are correct.

Historically, ‘crossroads’ referred to a physical location where two or more roads intersected. In ancient times, such locations were often considered significant, as they offered choices and opportunities for travellers. In that situation, you had to decide which path you had to take, as the roads led in different directions.

In a figurative sense, ‘at a crossroads’ means being at a critical point of decision or a turning point in your life, where you must choose between different options, paths or directions. It implies a sense of uncertainty, opportunity and potential change.

The phrase suggests that the person or entity is facing a crucial decision that will impact their future direction or outcome.


On the other  hand, for obvious reasons, some people are scared of using the term ‘at a crossroads.’ One of the simple reasons is overemphasis on grammar rules   -   the belief that the phrase disobeys rules of grammar. Sometimes, fixed expressions like “at a crossroads” do not obey grammatical rules. 

Using ‘at a crossroad’ would imply a single road or path; it would also make it lose the idiomatic force and richness of the plural form.

You may do well to stick with ‘at a crossroads’ to convey the idea of standing at a critical juncture with multiple options and choices. 

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